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ABOUT ME
Hi, I'm Paula. This section is about me, and about this website. I'm 58 and I've been a transvestite - dressing in women's clothes - since my early teens, which makes some 40 years living as a transvestite. I knew there was something different about me when I was still a child, after my Mother died when I was 7. By the time I reached 12, I was craving for male attention, and I looked for it everywhere. I didn't find it until I was 14, when I went to live with relatives. I used to sneak out at nights and let men have sex with me in parks, toilets, and an adult cinema. Most nights, at least 5 or 6 men had me. By the time I was 19, over 1000 men had been with me.
I first started dressing as a woman when a man who was having sex with me that night wanted me to put on his wife's dress. I did, and after looking in the mirror, I was hooked. I had found my true self. From then on, I took every opportunity I could to dress in drag. I found that it made me feel completely comfortable and at ease with myself. Then at 19, I developed a normality kick, and rather foolishly I decided to get married - as I thought it was the right thing to do. The marriage lasted 24 years before it broke-up, during which I only dressed occasionally. When we split-up, I went back to dressing as a woman, and soon I was spending most of the time in drag and letting lots of men have sex with me.
One man I was seeing suggested I got paid for having sex with men. Initially the idea amused me a great deal, but then my ego took over, and before long I was working full-time as a transvestite prostitute. I was 46, and a lot of men were paying me to have sex with them. I've always been submissive, so I fitted easily into the role. After a few years I gave up working full-time as a prostitute, and now I just do it part-time.
In time, I remarried. My wife is 12 years younger than me, and our marriage is a Dom/sub one in which I am the submissive one. She has no objection to me being a transvestite, or to letting other men use me to have sex with or to dominate me. An unusual marriage, but it works.
ABOUT THIS WEBSITE
Several years ago, I founded an MSN community called Paula's Transvestite World. It grew to become the best transvestite group on MSN, with the highest weekly traffic. I created the Miss Internet Transvestite competition,and this initially proved very successful. There came a time when commitments prevented me from spending as much time on the community as I had previously done, and so I passed-over it's management and operation to someone else, entrusting them with the good work the community was carrying out. Regrettably my trust was misplaced - the community was allowed to be hijacked wannabe transsexuals who created an environment in which normal transvestites were not welcome. When MSN closed-down it's adult websites, the community had already been reduced to almost total inactivity.
I decided to re-launch the community, and this is what this website is. I determined to make this website accurately reflect the reality of transvestite life - not the fantasy of it. Transvestites are not women - they are men who feel more comfortable dressing as women. There is nothing wrong with that. Where it all goes wrong is when they start believing they really are women. This website will help many transvestites keep a grip on reality, while at the same time learning to enjoy and take pride in being transvestites.
SOME PHOTOS OF ME IN THE PAST 20 YEARS
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Ask Paula a question - about anything:
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(Posted on 2008-10-06 10:09:00 by )
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Hi, Paula,
Thanks for a truly great site! I have just this minute joined: thank goodness I found you whilst surfing the internet! I first started crossdressing at the tender age of eleven years old, but let me be perfectly honest and state that I was never ever convincing, never ever successful - and still haven't got it right after all these years! So I am now just an "underdresser" - if that is the correct term. I know from personal experience just how lonely a TV can be - no-one to care, no-one to confide in - no-one to understand - so, in order to put something back into the community, so to speak, I should be delighted to offer a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on (we all need one of those from time to time!) to anyone who needs it. This is NOT a commercial proposition: there are NO charges whatever. I seem to have lots of free time - and it's also a lovely way to make new friends.
Hope this is of interest.
Love,
Diane
(Posted on 2008-09-19 07:12:00 by ) -
Hi Paula
I am about the same age as you but my transvestite experience has been very different. Although I did have have some TV interest as a boy and in my teens. My first real heavy experience was as a young man when a prostitute to whom I had gone for domination dressed me up and made me perform certain acts on her clients. I looked so young and pretty and the men seemed to love it. I can still recall the call girls very wicked laugh as she watched. After that I was hooked.
Lucyboy
(Posted on 2008-09-08 17:53:00 by ) -
Hi paule Sugerbab i love your story i have all ways had this dreem of being a lady off the night
can you give me some advise as where to get clients and can i say that you look very good all my love Sugerbab xx
(Posted on 2008-09-06 14:18:00 by ) -
Hi Paula
Great site !
Looking for TV/Cd in hertfordshire
Can you put me in touch ?
Thanks
(Posted on 2008-09-03 15:59:00 by ) -
hi i am loking 4 a tv in norwich 4 sex 45 to 65 ?
(Posted on 2008-09-02 15:03:00 by ) -
paula were in manchester do you live are there any good clubs as i am new to the area and new to tv
(Posted on 2008-08-25 10:58:00 by ) -
Paula,
Having had such a varied and interesting life (I am sure it's still got many interesting things ahead for you) - tell me what for you have been the highlights and the things you enjoyed most, LOL Marie José x
(Posted on 2008-08-15 14:46:00 by ) -
id love to meet a dom transvestite
(Posted on 2008-08-09 20:03:00 by ) -
Big Dong,
Help who? With What?
(Posted on 2008-08-07 05:12:00 by ) -
please email me , I can help
(Posted on 2008-08-06 14:35:00 by ) -
Hi Chloe,
If you want men to have sex with you, let them. If you don't, don't let them. Try reading the section "Transvestites and Sex" in this website - it might help you decide. Paula x
(Posted on 2008-08-02 05:20:00 by ) -
Hi ceejaylush,
Transformation in Birmingham offer this type of service, but I believe they're expensive. Try the fringe mags - there are some people offering this facility. Good luck, Paula x
(Posted on 2008-08-02 05:18:00 by ) -
Hi Paula,
I've been crossdressing for 10yrs now, started when i was 12, however i don't know how to react to guys liking me or what to do for sex, can you help me?
Chloe xxx
(Posted on 2008-08-01 20:39:00 by ) -
Hi Paula,
Ive always had a desire to dress up in womens clothes.
When my wife is out I put on her clothes and perform in front of the webcam for guys...i must say I have great legs and ass. I get alot of sexual satisfaction doing this.
Is there places where I can be made up professionally and have some pics taken in the Midlands area?
(Posted on 2008-07-31 08:58:00 by ) -
Hi Tammy. Oestrogen creams are usually the best, but they can e a bit expensive. Paula x
(Posted on 2008-07-30 05:20:00 by ) -
hi paula i am tammy when i was younger a man had his way with me as i dressed as a girl been dressing ever since i am 53 and i would love to become a woman but with my job its a little tough but what have you found to be a great product to increase breast size thanks tammy
(Posted on 2008-07-24 19:07:00 by ) -
In this box, you can type-in any questions you wish to ask me - about transvestism or about me - and I'll try to answer them. Paula x
(Posted on 2008-07-23 06:33:00 by )
Hi, Members.
This is on of the new features we're putting up on this website - my weekly blog. In it, I'll be bringing you up to date on the new features as they're introduced, and telling you all that's happening in my world.
This week so far, we've put in place this blog feature, and also installed a chat-room on the site. I hope you'll enjoy using it. I've already had two sessions on it, where I've had the chance to talk to members. Other new features will be installed in the next few weeks.
In my world, it's been rather hectic. Busy at work - lots of paperwork to do - and not much sleep. The other day I had to attend the hospital for a throat procedure, and I have to wait for the results. Wish me luck! One of the downsides is that I've lost my voice.
More of this blog as things happen. Love Paula
TRANSVESTITES TODAY
Transvestite life as it really is in today's world.
Hi Paula, I would just like to say how beautiful you look (with and without clothes) I wish I was able to look as hot and sexy as you. Lots of love, Maria xxxxxxxxxx